If your man is not a perfect lover, make him with a little bit of charm and a few tricks.

You have a man that suits your taste but, when it comes to your sexual life, you would like to change a few things? Your problem is over – with the help of charm and cunning tricks you can transform him into an excellent lover according to your taste.








This is not something new. It is caused by chemical process in his body that makes him sleepy. But, if you sense that he is not in a mood or, after sex, he wants to leave, then there might exist a more serious problem that cannot be resolved by itself. Try to talk wit him about it.


Although size matters, unfortunately, it is not sufficient. Technique in bed is a very important skill that needs a lot of practice, but if he thinks otherwise, then you have to convince him in the opposite. Try with direct but gentle approach, and, if he gets offended, don’t worry, he is a man, and men do not easily forget things like that but rather think about it a lot.


Sex can sometimes become a mechanical routine, and that is not good at all. If you are combining the same positions according to some scheme of his, then it is time for a women’s lesson. It would be best to turn words into deeds, and, with the help of his hand, mark your favorite spots on your body. The same goes for sex positions. Take initiative and make him familiar with your desires.


Although this is a great idea that can lead to climax in sex, its often repetition can decrease the effect. There is also and another thing. Such fetish can mean that, during sex, he wants to see someone else instead of you, and that can be even insulting.  If you want to play with him, demand the same of him. By him tiger-like or rubber thongs and make him wear them. He may then realize that this is not always the best solution for both of you.


There are two types of men - Those who are lousy during foreplay and those who haven’t even tried it. For the first type you’ll need tact and charm. You take the lead and show him how it is done. The second type is a little bit selfish, and it is time for you to tell him that. If he wants for both of you to participate in the game, set him an ultimatum, and when he tries your charms, he will not be able to resist them.


If your partner is always practicing the same positions or he is unimaginative,  or maybe he is afraid that if he tries something new it will be a failure – then it is time for you to act and provide him with support. But before you start anything, pump up his ego a little bit and praise his sexual capabilities. Then try to suggest him some small changes, which can be, for example, sexual position or the scene of sex. Kitchen or bathtub is great for starters.


Exaggeration, in general, is never good, and the same counts for sex. Sometimes men, because of too many adult movies, think that rough game is what every woman wants. Don’t ever do something that you don’t want to do. Explain him what sensitive sex and gentle love-making means to you. Sometimes even a short conversation is sufficient.

Awakening of passion is often associated with the warmest season of the year. There are many factors that are affecting our libido, and making it rise like the temperature.  


Sex can be good in any time of the year but summer offers many new advantages and possibilities. Find out if your passion is rising with the temperature and why it would be good to go on a trip with your partner.


After so many years spent in school, we are taught to seek love after June.  We are more relaxed in that period, more spontaneous and more ready for different kinds of surprises. And spontaneity is definitely a policy that we should follow. When you are keeping your partner (or he is keeping you) in expectation, the level of dopamine is raising. Dopamine is a hormone associated with excitement, and its increase is also increasing the attraction between partners.

Most of us have experienced extremely low temperatures in the past few months, and now we are more that ready for warm season. Exposure to sun is stimulating secretion of dopamine and serotonin, which are enhancing our libido. Since the days are now longer and longer the positive effect of the sun will be more pronounced. Why don’t you use those 15 hours of sun light and enjoy with your partner the best way you can.


Bathing and plash in a warm water, even for a half an hour, makes people more open and more ready for new interesting situations. The very fact that you are on the open, changes your perspective on different kind of things. The sun reduces your level of melatonin, and thus makes you more awake, more open for new ideas and more ready to explore new territories. This creative wave can be used even in the bedroom. Spend some time under the sun and you’ll be ready to release the spark of passion. Try sex without kisses or simply skip the foreplay – don’t be afraid to try new things.


Woman can subconsciously sense if a man has an interest in her, even if she is miles away from him. This is a conclusion of several modern researches.   Man that is interested in certain women is releasing chemicals thorough his sebaceous glands. Woman can decode those chemicals in an instant if they are sexual interest. Women’s sense of smell is even more intensified during summer, and that is because of additional humidity in the air. That is why women, during summer, are in best position to determine whether someone wants to be just a friend or something more.


Warm weather implies that you don’t need much effort to look attractive. High temperatures have probably made you wear short and translucent clothes. But, in any case, don’t exaggerate with to much exposure. We all love to discover new things, but uncovering the whole body can sometimes result in lack of motivation.




With warm and beautiful weather, you don’t have to relay just on the comfort and warmth of your bed. Advantages of sex in the open are numerous and they imply the use of all senses. Smell the aroma of flowers, soft breeze on your skin or soft ground underneath your body. These new stimulants can make sex a whole new spiritual and body experience.   

Pink Kisses is an Internet service which guarantees to women that they will, after a month, maximum two, get out of crisis after breakup and forget their ex.

Imagine this: your relationship ended, its over, but the very next day you find a bouquet of flowers in front of your door along with a message filled with flattering words.

The described situation is something that Pink Kisses does. That is their therapy for broken heart. Pink Kisses is a kind of emotional wellness center established by two girls who were left by their boyfriends.

Today, they are smiling managers, but a few years ago, they were drowning in tears because of disappointments in love. In short, because of unfortunate experiences, these girls decided to set up a web page Pink Kisses, a kind of social service dedicated to girls and women, which promises them that within one month (in severe cases two months) they will pull their clients from emotional crisis with the help of flowers, chocolates, motivational phrases, flattery and life coaches.


So, Ellie and Amy are dealing with breakups, because, as the say, it is better to pay someone to bring you a bouquet of flowers than to wait on your ex to send it. Pink Kisses is offering “all sorts of fabulous pick-me-ups,” in the site's own words. In subscription packages, which cost from 14 to 272 dollars, Pink Kisses offers almost every form of treatment for "heartbreak".

The least expensive is "The Rebound" - during one month you'll receive an e-mail with tips on how to move on after a breakup, you’ll get phrases and quotations from classical texts, a computer application called "Kiss Him Goodbye", which allows you to upload images of your ex to the Internet and see them burn,  and finally,  poster with motivational message.

The best treatment is "The Diva", which includes all of the above plus two life coaching sessions, shipment of flowers to your home address and a box of "Better than sex" truffles. But that's not all - girls can also choose a treatment "Diva for a day" which consists of professional photo session that is done in the house of the client by Pink Kisses team. The goal of this photo session is to create a new look that would symbolically and practically mark a new beginning.


Unfortunately, services that are paid are currently available only in the U.S. But Pink Kisses also sends virtual gifts, and on their blog you can find advices and classical texts with love themes. All of this is designed to help women after breakup.

“We want to change women’s lives by helping them recognize their own strength and accept their independence as part of a big, awesome adventure”.


Pink Kisses is presented as a kind of virtual resource center for emotional rehabilitation in which, with a lot of laughter and irony, advices and solutions are offered that can help women to turn a new page. The essence of it is probably best described in their slogan: “…because moving on is the best revenge”.

A man has four basic innate needs, and if a woman manages to meet them, he will fall in love with her, before he is even aware of it. 

“When a guy realizes, consciously or not, that you're ideal on all these levels, that's when he'll commit”, says Paul Dobransky, M.D., author of “The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love”

Strategy of falling in love comes down to four rules that women have to respect in order to become irreplaceable in man’s life. These rules are just some little things that will help you achieve a really important thing - that he is happy beside you and, if needed, that you are his constant optimist.

His primal desires resemble women's expectations. So, if you want him to fix something in the house, let him prove himself. He will not only feel more successful and useful, his brain will also perceive these minor repairs as "marking of territory".

For example, if you wear silk, you'll be very feminine to him, and if you let him touch you, he’ll certainly develop great affection towards you. If you like going out with your friends, then you must not bother him when he is watching a game on television. If he can go for a beer with his friends without having his mobile phone ringing every five minutes, he'll feel that he has finally found the "right" one. And if you both like to play mind games or to discuss about some “serious” topics, he’ll consider you as a smart “transmitter” of his, likewise, smart genes.


"Falling in love is a process of developing attachment, which happens when oxytocin floods the brain," says neurologist Alan Hirsch. To raise the level of attachment hormones, you just need to convince the man that you two just fit together. Groom in front of him because no one else can see you doing that, cook together, and when you two go shopping buy something that he likes. Cook before him, for him, without make up on you. You’ll deepen the intimacy, and he will cease thinking about your relationship and simply enjoy in it.


No matter how independent they are, women must create the feeling in a man that he is their protector. Ask him often about his opinion. Occupy him with “men” jobs as often possible, and say to him, for example, “I don't know what I would have done without you”.



Let him understand that you do not want to change him, because, for a man, that is a sign that you truly understand him and that you will not threaten his identity or freedom. Give him both mental and physical space. Do not force him to constantly spend time with you, and you will intrigue him even more.






When you two are together, and especially in the company of his friends, show him respect. This way, he is growing in the eyes of his friends, and you are growing in his eyes. If you save him with your charm in some awkward moment, he will definitely feel that he is in a relationship with the best girl in the world.

If you think that luck doesn’t come near you, and that everyone around you has a better life, then you're wrong. There are a lot of things which are indicating that you're happier more than you think. Here are some of them. They are results of numerous studies on the quality of life.






Studies have shown that people who are smiling in photographs from their youth have five times lesser chances to divorce later in life. Happier people are more attractive to the society, and people feel better in their presence, which contributes to higher quality of relationship within marriage.


People who have at least one sister are more inclined to optimism, providing support and empathy. Sisters foster communication and unity in the family, which is reflected on positive feelings of all family members.


According to research conducted on more than 40,000 people, more fortunate among them spend 30 percent less time in front of TV than others. Because of that, they have more time for socializing, reading and other values that contribute to a better mood and quality of life.


If you keep photos and souvenirs from trips on some conspicuous place, every time you see them will remind you of precious moments, as well as the possibility of their imminent recurrence.


Only 20 minutes of exercise a day may reduce the stress in the body up to 70 percent. That is why people who exercise regularly feel better, not only physically but also emotionally.


Exchange of tenderness and harmonious relationship with your loved one has a huge influence on your mental and physical health. People who are in a happy relationship feel better and are more often in a good mood.


The more time you spend with happy people, the greater the possibility that their good mood and optimism will pass on to you. And if those people live close to you, chances are increasing because your encounters are more frequent.


According to one study, people who were holding in their hands and drinking warm drinks, like cocoa or tea, were warmer and better willing than those who drank cold drinks. Psychologists concluded that external heat influences inner one and that warm drinks have a favorable effect on the organism and thus have influence on the mood.


In one study that included 600 participants, all those who concluded that they have two best friends were generally happier than those with more or less friends. Therefore, a large number of people with whom you socialize are not a guarantee of happiness.

Promiscuity is attributed to men as a virtue for centuries, but not for women.  Appearance of Lynn Barber on the list of people with many lovers is still shocking to the world, regardless the fact that we are living in the 21st century. 

Myths about guys seducers such as the one of Don Juan who has slept with 2,065 women or Casanova whose bed "hosted" 122 ladies, made promiscuity a big plus for stronger sex. Is there anyone who’s not familiar with the urban myth about Warren Beatty and 12 775 sexual partners he had over 35 years, or the story of Fidel Castro who, allegedly, had intercourse with, on average, two women a day?




Such figures didn’t shocked the public. That was about men, right? But then journalist Lynn Barber appeared on the list of people with many lovers and everyone was shocked. In her book “An Education”, (a film of the same name was made) Lynn Barber revealed that during her education at Oxford she slept with “probably 50 men”. For the first 18 months of her three-year English course at St Anne's College, Oxford, she had only one boyfriend, but then she decided not to waste her time.

 "My thinking after that was that I must get a boyfriend immediately and that I haven't got time to waste going punting or to dinner with them. Why don't I just go to bed with them first, eliminate them if they are no good and not waste time. Which is, I suppose, a pretty bad attitude.” - Barber told on BBC radio.

This 67-year-old journalist is known as a real devil in the media world because she was merciless and direct in her interviews, but even so, many were surprised with her confession regarding the number of men with whom she slept. However, she said that she never felt any shame.


“I would criticise more what I call the Elizabeth Taylor syndrome, where highly sexed women feel they have to marry the man they sleep with. Then they get divorced and do the same thing over and over again.” – said Barber, who was, otherwise, married for her college friend David Cardiff. Considering the fact that they were married until his death eight years ago, it seems that this attitude of hers is not without merit.

Many have experienced Lynn Barber’s confession as a call for an alarm – mainly because she is a woman. Even though promiscuity was attributed to men as a virtue for centuries, women’s recognition of playful past doesn’t go in their favor even in the modern 21st century. On the contrary, they are advised to keep this information hidden like a serpent’s legs, with a proven recipe to tell every man, after the first one, that he is the second in their life.


A more amusing revelation came several months ago, when it emerged that throughout the sixth series of Sex and the City, the main characters had 115 million indirect sexual partners. Although they are fictional characters, promiscuity of New York Four, led by columnist Carrie Bradshaw, is more in line with the modern type of women than in the case of their mothers and grandmothers. Believe it or not, the latest studies show that girls today have three times more partners than those from few decades ago, even in comparison with the swinging sixties of last century.  Ten percent of women admitted that they had more than 10 partners by the age of 24. On the other hand, according to the same study, about 20 percent of men, by that age, had only one partner! And so ... men have several partners while women have a lot more ... is it possible that things are drastically changing lately? And furthermore, is it really that important how many partners have you had?

Tracey Cox, a sex therapist, says that the best answer to a question on the number of previous partners is - "none of your business ".

“If you do confess, especially if you’re female, I guarantee that no matter what number you say, it’ll be too many. Even if you’ve only had five, it will still be four too many.”

Admit it, whenever you hear that some couple is back together, you think - yeah, like that’s going to last. If the relationship ends, then obviously there was some problem, so it is hard to imagine that the next time it will be better and more successful. This is especially true if the end was ugly and difficult. 

Many experts do not agree with that way of thinking. Perhaps there were some problems earlier but time spent apart can eventually bring closer two individuals and make a relationship much more successful – under condition that the main problems are successfully solved. Of course, there are and some "rules of renewed relationship" with which you can increase your chances of success in the second round!


It is difficult to brake and slow down when you are trying very hard to make up the lost time and to enjoy being in that old feeling of love. But whether you admit it or not, both of you have changed and you’ll will need some time until you’re completely familiar with each other. Experts suggest that you should treat this old-new relationship as a completely new one. Even though you’re rushing to enjoy the days spent together once more, it is important to stop and think about why do you want to be with that person. It is the same question like with any other partner, and not something you would ask yourself only because you know that person from before.


Talk about some major things that you want them different this time - but be careful not to sound like you’re threatening or inadvertently posting ultimatum.

It would really make me happy or It would mean a lot to me – is a good way for you to introduce an old topic in the conversation. And this time both of you should seriously work on your bad habits. For example, if it bothered him that you’re always late – start arriving on time. if it bothered you that he stayed often out with his buddies until late at night, or even not calling back - point it out to him, loud and clear.

But watch out. Be very carefully if you want to start a fight because of an old dispute, as you otherwise could find yourself again in the beginning.


The good side of breaking up is that it probably made you a stronger person. Experts say that each time we break up with somebody we are re-learning how to live our lives. So, regardless of whether you have spent your separated time learning a new martial art or with new love, you have made yourself better and stronger.


Regardless of whether you have a new relationship with an old boyfriend or new one, it is worth to know what kind of women men are most afraid of.

The Italian psychologists have made extensive research, which included nearly 3,000 men. The research has shown that two-thirds of men are afraid of women that are obsessed with marriage.

On that list, men placed even single mothers. The reason for this was men’s fear of being responsible for someone else's child.

Men also avoid women who seek perfection and like to have everything under control.

Among other things, the research discovered that men are trying to avoid women who have many friends whose advice they’re listening to. They also don’t like women who care a lot about what their friends think, instead of thinking for themselves.

But the most interesting of all the data is that most men, 98 percent, have the biggest fear of women who are selfish, full of themselves and think they are queens.

Although some men are not aware of it, the way they start sex, touch and kiss a woman reveals if they are confident in themselves or not.


Uncertainty is not attractive, especially in the bedroom. It cannot be hidden, because it reveals itself with some lover’s moves.  Men are trying to hide it with a ferocity, speed and playing with verified moves. But women immediately feel it.


Although women are known as a traditional sex, they are not conservative and they do like to try new things. If sex is reduced only to the missionary position, women will certainly not be happy and satisfied. Many men, at the beginning of a relationship, when they are not yet well acquainted with their partner, resort to the missionary position because they feel they that they can’t do some mistake there. But this is where the are wrong, because women do love and other positions.


Do you like this? Do you love it when I touch you here? Do you want me to squeeze harder? Unconfident men often ask too many question during sex. Although his desire for a better satisfaction of a woman is commendable, too many questions indicate that he is unconfident in himself, and that is not sexy at all. Sex is composed mainly of deeds, not words, therefore, many questions can kill passion.


Many men think that the only erogenous zones are breasts and crotch. They especially know to "play" a lot in the breast area, and squeeze them too much, which causes pain in women. On the other hand, some spend eternity in the crotch area. These men usually do not know well the woman’s body and play it safe by turning all their attention on the major trumps. But women do not like this way of foreplay and sex.


Characteristic of unconfident men is even speed. They want to prove that they are top lovers, so they are lunging and accelerating the flow of sex, and foreplay. They think that women love it, but it is not true. Women love the speed and ferocity, but also and slower pace and tenderness. They do not like at all when men are turning into a machine and think that they are facing a task they have to meet. And those who want to do everything in a hurry, are just like that.


According to one research, men who exercise regularly achieve significantly better sexual results than male members who live a sedentary lifestyle. In other words, men who practice moderate physical activity - walking briskly 30 minutes a day, four days a week – have  two-thirds less chances for problems with sexual dysfunction than men who are not engaged in any physical activity.

Based on the collected survey data, respondents who were moderately or highly active had a 65 percent lower probability of sexual dysfunction occurrence. 

If you are wondering how exercise strengthens the sexual power of men - here's the answer: experts claim that exercise can increase blood flow to the penis, which greatly facilitates an erection. In addition, physical activity can build confidence, which finally leads to enhanced sexual power.

The way in which sexes experience beauty is completely different. While women think that red lipstick and artificial eyelashes are sexy, men abhor these things.

If you think that a man doesn’t notice if your legs are freshly waxed, how you smell and how you're wearing makeup, you are wrong. The fact that you spent hours of your free time styling and putting make-up so that your hair is looking like it was under a press and your face like a painter's canvas, is not at all a guarantee that you will enchant some man.On the contrary.

Studies show that women’s perception of beauty is completely different from what men consider attractive. One particular study found out some beauty tricks that work on them. In that study, men of various ages rated photos of various women. Here are those beauty tricks.




If you're going on a date with a guy that you like, and you want him to think about you all night after that, know that you will not achieve your intention with a cloud of perfume around you.  Don’t exaggerate with anything on a first date, especially with perfume. Men consider over-perfumed women unattractive. They don’t want to have a feeling like they just got out of perfumery when they are beside you. They want to sense your perfume only when they lean to whisper you something.


Make-up artists believe that the eternal maxim about red lipstick is in fact just a female illusion and that the blood red lips on a woman's face are actually repulsive to men. Vibrant lipstick colors and textures with which they shine, are not at all attractive to them. When they start about kissing you, and then notice that lipstick, their will falls into water. They like a natural “no make-up” look. So, avoid red, pink, purple and other dark lipsticks and use only natural, light sticks.



This is something you should adopt immediately. A thing called artificial eyelashes men consider absurd. They simply do not realize that artificial eyelashes give extra confidence to most women because they are covering flaws, which, otherwise, only they see. For men, this supplement is more like a mask that could be used for a masquerade, and they do not consider it attractive at all. If you wink them with that fan made of artificial eyelashes, they will immediately place you in a group of women that are putting a lot of effort in their looks, and whose morning ordinary look they are feared the most. Such women profile is automatically disqualified.


To leave a good impression on a man you must take good care of your skin. In fact, most men agree in their opinion that there is no better feeling than caressing silky, nourished women's skin. When a woman is sexually attracted to him, he is immediately asking himself: "What kind of body is under those clothes?", "Is her skin smooth?”… Men claim that there is nothing more repelling than a rough or unwaxed skin.




The study has shown that most men like women with little or no makeup, but all of them adore the famous Smokey Eyes look! Smokey Eyes look gives mysticism to the female look, and that is irresistible to men. Women receive most compliments from men when they apply Smokey Eyes.






When you have casually dismissed and slightly entangled hair, then you are most beautiful to men. Its not that they do not appreciate your hair styling, for them it is simply a waste of time.  Also, men are always voting for the natural hair color. If you are coloring your hair for years, then at least try to make your hair look natural.

Reasons for dissatisfaction at work can be different and dangerous to health. Turn them into your advantage.

If, between being sick and going to work, you rather choose to be sick, then you may be chronically unhappy with your career. The reasons behind your choice could be tiredness of work, lack of promotion and desired raise, disagreement with the boss or colleagues. But these are just some of the "symptoms" of tiredness from which you can get sick.

You can easily turn all these drawbacks to your advantage, if you react to the aforementioned "injustices". You will feel better if you say that you won’t be able to finish something because you are overloaded. Also, if you organize your work so that your stress is reduced to a minimum, you will finish the assigned duties much faster. To find a new dose of satisfaction, write down five favorite activities that you do on a daily basis and ask your boss to assign you at least two of them. You will become more efficient in that way and you’ll find a new motive for going to work.


In moments of weakness, others can advise you or motivate you. Do not hesitate to seek help from a colleague who is, at that time, less burdened. And remember, without action you won’t change anything. Ask your boss to allocate a part of the work on your colleagues, and you will avoid further criticism on your account.


Even in the most stressful situations, like not finishing something before the deadline, it is very important to control your own reactions. This is the best way to avoid conflict with the boss, colleagues and associates. Conflicts and frictions are an additional burden and they only draw attention from the assigned tasks.


People who are tired of working are often sensitive to criticism. That criticism often leads to anxiety and low self-esteem. In such situations, even the most innocent remark can be interpreted as malicious, and thinking about it only takes away your precious time and positive energy. 


Longing for the best is great, but be careful not to overdo it with perfectionism. Nothing can be perfect. The most important thing is to become aware in what you are good at and where you need to improve. If you set your goals in accordance with that, then success must come.

There are signs that clearly indicate that it is time to end a relationship. Observe them well because they mean that your relationship has no future.

No one should allow himself to be in a relationship that doesn’t make him happy. For such torture, justification that you spent many years together is simply not enough. Take a piece of paper and put down all advantages and disadvantages of your relationship. That can help you realize how many problems you actually have. If that doesn’t help you, here are some signs that clearly indicate that it is time to break up.



If it happens that he or she is not present when you need it the most, if he or she  doesn’t respond to phone calls or is often unavailable, it is time to act. Don’t buy excuses like “I have no time” because such person will never be there for you when you need it the most.

If your partner continues to break promises, even if you have asked him not to, forget that person.  Such behavior is a sign that you are not important enough in your partner’s life.


Psychologists say that mean words are equal to slapping.  If someone is often feeling bad because of partner’s behavior, and nothing changes even after conversation about it – it is time to break up.  Why would you want to spend time with a person who is ruining your self-esteem?


No one should try to be someone else, just because his partner is asking that of him. If someone is not happy and satisfied with you, it is a sign that you are not meant for each other. You need to find a person that will bring the best out of you, and not someone who wants to shape you according to his needs.


Avoid relationships in which your partner, because of smallest argument, is threatening to break up with you. Every relationship has problems, but if your partner is not willing to talk about them, it means that he is not ready to commit himself.

Based on his profile, you can easily find out everything you want to know about him, and in the same time, he is not even aware how much his activity on this social network reveals him. 

Facebook profile can tell you more about a man you’re interested than he thinks when he is setting it. Here are some things that you can learn about him based on his profile. You cannot even imagine what secrets can be revealed in this way.










Photograph that he chose for his profile can tell you for which purpose he is using Facebook.  Keep in mind that boring profile photo doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a boring guy. Such picture could mean that he has business partners and/or boss among his friends.


Photo where he drinks wine, beer or some other alcohol directly from the bottle is not problematic by itself. That guy just loves parties. However, if he is already in his twenties, you can conclude that he wishes to emphasize that he is still young and loves constant entertainment. On the other hand, it could also mean that he is definitely not ready for a serious relationship.


The fact that he loves animals can be a very positive sign. On the other hand, if his Facebook album is exclusively filled with photographs of him and his terrier – that can be cause for an alarm.


He is showing that he is cool because he was able to reach someone who is well known and famous. This may seem a bit strenuous, but on the other hand, it allows you to learn more about his character and personality. If he posted a photo with the whole rock band instead of just him and a singer, that would leave a totally different impression of him, right?


In this case you are done. It is practically impossible to conclude what relation exists between them.  Maybe the girl in the picture is his sister or cousin... But if she is scantily dressed and very close to him on the picture - you simply cannot know if she is his girlfriend or some dancer from a club.


If he is changing his profile photo often and posts new statuses, it tells you that he is communicative and enjoys social contacts. Obviously, he is very attached to his social network. However, statuses with which he is telling everyone when he had a shower, what has he eaten today, when his office’s coffee machine broke down and what caused his computer to crash - show a bit exaggerated attachment to the Internet and Facebook.


If you gain impression from his statuses that he is having a hard time, that he is suffering because of something and that he thinks his life is horrible - it means that you have found someone who is probably very emotionally dependent. On the other hand, if he is constantly criticizing himself and the others, it means that he is a man who is rarely satisfied, and whose high standards are difficult to meet.


If he often posts good results in quizzes, he is probably a man who is very competitive and enjoys in life's challenges. Such man loves action, so do not expect of him, for example, to deal much with a question what he will give you as a birthday present. Literally - details and complicated issues are not his domain.


Even the number and gender of his friends can tell you a lot about him.


A large number of friends can be a very positive sign. This means that he is optimistic, relaxed and loves meeting new people. Of course, it could also mean that he is very ambitious and that he is trying to improve his status in front of others with a large number of friends. Or, he’s just on of those who have a need to be popular.


Maybe you have in front of him a guy who is looking for attractive girls in his friends’ contact lists. This type is good for flirting on the internet, but stable relationship with him is not an option.


This doesn’t mean that something is not OK with him. In fact, this may be a good sign. He is probably a very loyal friend who doesn’t attach himself that easily with others, but once he becomes a friend with someone – he is developing a stable and deep relationship with him.

Sex therapist Barbara Carellas claims that orgasm can be achieved with a special technique of relaxation and fantasy.


Inspired by the stunning information that two thirds of women in America have problems in their sexual life, American writer, sex therapist and lecturer Barbara Carellas researched ways in which women can achieve orgasm. Known as a trainer of workshops and courses about sex, Barbara claims that orgasm by thought is not a delusion, but the real state that can be achieved with learning.

In the eighties, this woman was managing off-Broadway plays in New York, but several years later she turned her focus on studying sex therapies. According to her, it was an ideal moment to focus on sex because the end of eighties brought fear of AIDS, disease that was rapidly expanding in artistic circles.


Barbara was drawn to exploring alternative sexuality by a famous eternal dilemma - how to recognize when a woman fakes orgasm? Along the way, she discovered an amazing phenomenon - reaching climax with thoughts.  It is, in fact, breath and energy orgasm, as she called it. It can be reached through technique of deep breathing and relaxation.

Researchers at Rutgers University have proved, two years ago, that when Barbara Carellas reaches her breath and energy orgasm, the part of the brain reacts exactly the same as when it comes to ordinary orgasm. Writer and sex therapist, Dr. Ian Kerner, claims that the brain is the most powerful sex organ from which everything starts. That is why he recommends to women breathing techniques, concentration and frequent fantasies as an ideal means for improving their sexual life. However, he emphasizes that this shouldn’t be the only way to enjoy and reach climax.

Barbara Carellas says that any woman can learn the mentioned technique, but only if she rejects the traditional concept of sexuality. In her relationships, she doesn’t use this technique to replace traditional sex, she is using it as an expansion of intimate relationship.

Barbara Carellas teaches this miraculous technique, which causes incredible explosion of pleasure in the female body, in her workshops in the U.S., where she gathers people who want to afford themselves a new and unforgettable sexual experience. Unfortunately, she never shared the secret of achieving orgasm with the help of thought, because she says that it cannot be explained with words. You can get certain idea about it, if you read some of her books.

Naturally, most men want just sex from women, and most phrases are designed for that purpose.

Men have a whole repertoire of phrases that they use to make women do exactly what they want. In a popular book called “Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love”, Allan and Barbara Pease exposed what is really hiding behind those phrases.

It appears that in spite of enormous progress that women have made, their education and intelligence, they still don’t know how to reveal what some of men’s statements actually mean.




Behind this statement lies an unconscious conclusion: "Your face is symmetrical, which means you could successfully transmit my genes and give birth to beautiful and healthy children". Conscious thought is: "I want sex with you as soon as possible”. Of course, they will not say it openly.


Although they may not be aware of this, but when men say such thing, they are thinking: "The scope of your waist and hips emphasizes fertility”. What they are aware of, but are silent about it, is: "That dress perfectly outlines your breasts, which is why my hormones are raging, and all that I want now is sex with you".


Men usually use this phrase when they end a relationship.  Although they say it, they are thinking something completely different: "I've had enough of your terror, I don’t like you anymore and I got over you. Finally, I will have no one to bother me on the phone all day. I hope we’ll see each other very rarely.”


Coffee may have an innocent meaning in women's perception, but not in men’s. When he says to a woman to come by for a coffee, he actually thinks: “Come and I’ll make you that damn coffee, but then we’ll continue socializing in my bedroom and I’m expecting a wild sex”.


When he meets a woman that he doesn’t really like too much, a man usually says that he’ll call her. Translation: "If I don’t meet someone more interesting soon, I'll call you because I need sex. Better something than nothing.” It is rough, but most times, it is true.


Men generally have a great ego and they almost never think that the problem is in them. When they say to a woman that the problem is not in her but in them, they actually think: "Of course the problem is in you. Go away and don’t come back anymore".


They usually use this phrase after sex with a woman with whom they do not want a deeper relationship. Translation: "Sex was good. Not perfect, but satisfactory. Thank you for sex, but now I do not want to sleep with you, talk and cuddle, so I’ll just go home".

Stress at work is inevitable, but there are things that can minimize it. The most important thing is to make peace with yourself, and then to orientate on the business strategy. Experts have found out how you can do that easily.


Numerous studies have shown that stress at work has a serious impact on health. The situation is more difficult today because we live in uncertain times of crisis, when each working position is precious.

However, don’t allow your dissatisfaction with the job to spoil your life. If you currently can’t quit and find a better job, try to get the most out of work you do now. The most important thing is to avoid stress so that you do not harm your health. 


If you are surrounded with conflicting colleagues and a grumpy boss, develop a strategy that will solve these problems. Visualize in your head conversations with people for whom you feel that are standing in the way of your happiness. Read books that can help you in this, and talk to close people who were already in such situations. It is important that stress, caused by poor relationships at work, do not affect your health.


Before developing any strategy and acting by it, you should first familiarize with yourself. Discover who you are, what you want and where do you see yourself (regarding work) in five years. Get to know your strengths and weaknesses, because it will help you feel more comfortable in your own skin. In this way, you will stand up for yourself much easier and open up opportunities for promotion.


Many people are under huge stress because they do not know how to organize themselves. Make a weekly plan of obligations and, if necessary, modify it along the way. It is best to make it on Friday (for the next week), to avoid burdening yourself with it during weekend. Weekly plan gives you control over your working life and it is proven that it reduces stress.


Once the working week is over, leave work at work. Try to control yourself during weekend and do not think at all about work. Use your weekend just for yourself. Socialize with dear people and do things you like. Relax, take a walk, enjoy the baths and laugh. Weekend must provide you leisure and entertainment, so that you can return to work full of energy and working spirit.


Whether you have an office or just a small space in a large room, clearly mark that space that belongs only to you. Place your favorite plant there, put photos of dear people on your desk and bring any thing that makes you happy. This will not only affect your mood, it will make it clear to others that it is just your space, and that you intend to stay there long, and give your best at that job.

Certain factors reduce the chances for success of marriage. Here are 12 warning signs that predict divorce.


Can a smile on photographs from childhood or career choice predict marital success? Well-known American journalist Anneli Rufus is confident that they can.

In order to identify factors that predict the success of marriage, this writer has thoroughly studied even several decades’ old researches. The results were very surprised. Here is her list of 12 warning signs that predict divorce.

1. If you are a woman, and you got married before you turned 18, you have a 48 percent chance of divorce within 10 years.

2. If you are a woman who wants a baby more than her husband, your marriage is two times more likely to end than the marriage in which the partners agree on the number of children they will have.

3. If you have two sons, you face a 36.9 percent probability of divorce. However, if you have two girls, the chances are increasing to 43.1 percent.

4. If you are male and have a high level of testosterone, you have 43 percent more chances of divorce than men with low levels of testosterone.

5. If your child was diagnosed with ADHD - attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, you have 22.7 percent higher probability to divorce before the child turns 8.

6. If you’re not smiling on the photographs from your early childhood, the possibility of divorce is greater.

7. If your child died after the 20th week of pregnancy, during birth or shortly after birth, you have 40 percent greater chance to divorce than those who never lost a child.

8. If you are a woman who was recently diagnosed with a cancer or multiple sclerosis, your marriage is exposed to six times greater risk of divorce then the marriage in which your husband is ill with those diseases.

9. If your occupation is a dancer or a choreographer, you are exposed to 43.5 percent greater probability of divorce, unlike mathematicians or animal trainers.

10. If you are involved in agriculture, you have only a 7.63 percent probability of divorce, unlike other, stressful occupations.

11. If you or your partner have survived brain injury, your marriage is exposed to 17 percent chance of divorce.

12. If you are a woman and you are working for the army or police, you have 250 percent more chances of divorce than men who opted for these occupations.

The only way to find out what men think, is to ask them concrete question. But, that is not always easy. Writer Zoe Strimpel, after a year of research and testing, gave some explanations regarding men.

Many men are easy to read until the time comes to start a relationship. At least, that is what the experts say. When that moment comes, no matter how old are you, in most cases you’ll find yourself in an intricate and inexplicable circle.  Of course, you will try to keep that feeling for yourself.

Does he like me? Are we finally on the same wavelength or we're just friends? Should I stay with him? What is he actually doing and thinking? These are the questions that writer Zoe Strimpel tried to explain in her study.  During the whole year of her researcher, she interviewed men of different ages, different perspectives of life and different professions.

Strange but true: the only way to know what men really think is ask them concrete question, but that is not always easy.

She took into consideration all situations through which she or her friends passed, and asked for frank and open answers to her questions. Here are some questions and answers given by men who agreed to participate:

How is it possible that men, in one moment, run after women, and then act as if they forgot how to do that?
Forbidden fruit is the sweetest fruit. When a man manages to seduce the girl he wants, the thrill is no longer the same, like in the beginning.

What is the best thing a woman can do?
To keep her cool in most situations and to keep for herself some things she wants to say.

And the worst thing?
The worst thing is when women have too much enthusiasm in relationship and make plans for the future. I hate it when women are too related to men and when their behavior indicates that they are afraid of abandonment.

What do they say to a woman when they realize that she is not the right one for them?
I usually say that I do not have time for a serious relationship or simply break up.
Business commitments hinder me, and I am emotionally confused.
I am going out with my friends. If you want, join us.


Why are men so bad at communicating?
We are very lousy when it comes to conversation. It is difficult for us to find the courage for that act, and even among ourselves, we rarely talk about feelings and relationships. Men's conversations are mostly related to job, sport and women - in terms of how to win them, and not so much about what is happening our relationships.


What is the maximum number of men that women can admit that they slept with?
Ten is the maximum number allowed. Men will not like them if its more.

What are the opinions about a girl who agrees to sex on a first date?
If we like it, is likely that the same thing will repeat and the second and third and the fourth time, and there are cases, for the rest of our lives. Most times, women hesitate, because men after that rarely call back, because they already got what they wanted. Men who think like that, usually disappear from sight, roughly, after the fifth date. If nothing else, at least you discover earlier if he was for you or not. Waiting until the fourth or fifth date gives you the opportunity to get to know each other a little better. Nevertheless, some of the better relationships have begun right after sex on the first date.

Can a man and a woman be just friends?
No. something will always be between them. Only in case the girl reminds us of a sister or a very close person could mean that we will not feel anything sexual towards her.


What does a girl must have to create a desire in a man to marry her?
Strength and character are in the first place. She must be a good person, someone who will survive everything with you and will never think twice whether she wants to be with you. The very idea that you want your children to have a mother like her, that she's the one that will support your values and work. We believe in marriage, but we are not too burdened by it. We are giving up our freedom because we accept marriage and everything else that comes along - we do not want to grow old and be alone.

How important is it that a woman is careful about her appearance?
It is crucial. I couldn’t be with someone who doesn’t maintain regular hygiene, however, women who exaggerate with perfection and cleanliness do not attract me either – those who put too much make-up, have every hair in place, put strong nail varnish everyday... At the beginning of relationship, care is very important. Depilation is important thing, but if someone loves enough, he will get used to most things in a relationship or not notice them at all.


Why do men avoid conflict, and do not avoid being bad to their better half, when love is slowly disappearing?
Although many men do not want to admit it, most of them do not like to be alone, so, even the bad relationship is a good relationship until they find a better solution.

Men and shopping?
Men are shopping when they want, and before they go shopping, they know what they want to buy, where to find it and what is the price of the product. Shopping with a woman is something that we really do not enjoy, but we can bear it.

Although some things should be clearer after this research, it still remains the possibility that not everyone was completely honest and that they didn’t said the whole truth about most things, but unfortunately, that will never be revealed.

A new serious relationship, an engagement period or during the honeymoon are phases when your hormones assure you that your partner is God-given, that he can lift your mood at any time and that he simply has no flaws. Unfortunately, this hormonal effect will not last. 

Gian Gonzaga is a senior research scientist at "eHarmony Labs”, website specialized in love affairs. He is also a social psychologist who has been studying interpersonal relationships, especially love relationships for 21 years. With that kind of experience, we can freely say that he is a guru when it comes to love problems. Here are some of his tips that can help you to discern and to evaluate whether you want to start a serious relationship with someone or you’re just looking for some fun.

If you are often finishing the thoughts of your partner, or you’re saying the same thing at the same time as if reading each other's thoughts, you have, potentially, high-quality partner by your side. These situations give the impression that you know each other very well and that you have full understanding for each other. Gonzaga says that when two people understand each other, their lesser conflicts will not turn into big ones, because partners, in the end, figure out what they want to say to each other.

Physical attractiveness is important, but beware if that's all that draws you to him or her. Numerous studies have shown that the perception of physical attractiveness changes as partners become more connected on a psychological level, but that is not the case if it goes in the opposite direction. When it comes to long-term relationships, the mind is always more important than the body. “Physical appearance is important – you cannot find your mate repugnant and expect that to change”, Gonzaga says. He adds that it is better to have only a psychological connection and attraction, because as partners become more attracted to each other in this way, they may become and physically more attracted. 

You will probably hesitate to mention how many kids you want on your first date, but if you are planning a serious relationship don’t wait to long to bring up that subject. It is important that, at the very beginning, you share your views on faith, family, children and money, because they are good indicators of whether your relationship has sense and potential, or not. Core values are in all of us, but unfortunately, they are not equal. Therefore, they can provide a guarantee of relationship’s success or confirmation that the relationship has no future. 

You do not have to be the same or similar in everything. The differences are sometimes necessary and useful. For example, if one partner is very sociable, and the other is not, although he wants to be, sociable partner could be his best support and assist him in achieving the objectives for which the other partner never thought they could be achieved.