If your man is not a perfect lover, make him with a little bit of charm and a few tricks.

You have a man that suits your taste but, when it comes to your sexual life, you would like to change a few things? Your problem is over – with the help of charm and cunning tricks you can transform him into an excellent lover according to your taste.








This is not something new. It is caused by chemical process in his body that makes him sleepy. But, if you sense that he is not in a mood or, after sex, he wants to leave, then there might exist a more serious problem that cannot be resolved by itself. Try to talk wit him about it.


Although size matters, unfortunately, it is not sufficient. Technique in bed is a very important skill that needs a lot of practice, but if he thinks otherwise, then you have to convince him in the opposite. Try with direct but gentle approach, and, if he gets offended, don’t worry, he is a man, and men do not easily forget things like that but rather think about it a lot.


Sex can sometimes become a mechanical routine, and that is not good at all. If you are combining the same positions according to some scheme of his, then it is time for a women’s lesson. It would be best to turn words into deeds, and, with the help of his hand, mark your favorite spots on your body. The same goes for sex positions. Take initiative and make him familiar with your desires.


Although this is a great idea that can lead to climax in sex, its often repetition can decrease the effect. There is also and another thing. Such fetish can mean that, during sex, he wants to see someone else instead of you, and that can be even insulting.  If you want to play with him, demand the same of him. By him tiger-like or rubber thongs and make him wear them. He may then realize that this is not always the best solution for both of you.


There are two types of men - Those who are lousy during foreplay and those who haven’t even tried it. For the first type you’ll need tact and charm. You take the lead and show him how it is done. The second type is a little bit selfish, and it is time for you to tell him that. If he wants for both of you to participate in the game, set him an ultimatum, and when he tries your charms, he will not be able to resist them.


If your partner is always practicing the same positions or he is unimaginative,  or maybe he is afraid that if he tries something new it will be a failure – then it is time for you to act and provide him with support. But before you start anything, pump up his ego a little bit and praise his sexual capabilities. Then try to suggest him some small changes, which can be, for example, sexual position or the scene of sex. Kitchen or bathtub is great for starters.


Exaggeration, in general, is never good, and the same counts for sex. Sometimes men, because of too many adult movies, think that rough game is what every woman wants. Don’t ever do something that you don’t want to do. Explain him what sensitive sex and gentle love-making means to you. Sometimes even a short conversation is sufficient.