Wednesday, March 16, 2011

This is the end!

There are signs that clearly indicate that it is time to end a relationship. Observe them well because they mean that your relationship has no future.

No one should allow himself to be in a relationship that doesn’t make him happy. For such torture, justification that you spent many years together is simply not enough. Take a piece of paper and put down all advantages and disadvantages of your relationship. That can help you realize how many problems you actually have. If that doesn’t help you, here are some signs that clearly indicate that it is time to break up.



He/She is never there for you

If it happens that he or she is not present when you need it the most, if he or she  doesn’t respond to phone calls or is often unavailable, it is time to act. Don’t buy excuses like “I have no time” because such person will never be there for you when you need it the most.

He/She is breaking promises

If your partner continues to break promises, even if you have asked him not to, forget that person.  Such behavior is a sign that you are not important enough in your partner’s life.

He/She is ruining your self-esteem

Psychologists say that mean words are equal to slapping.  If someone is often feeling bad because of partner’s behavior, and nothing changes even after conversation about it – it is time to break up.  Why would you want to spend time with a person who is ruining your self-esteem?

He/She is asking of you to change

No one should try to be someone else, just because his partner is asking that of him. If someone is not happy and satisfied with you, it is a sign that you are not meant for each other. You need to find a person that will bring the best out of you, and not someone who wants to shape you according to his needs.

He/She is threatening with breaking up

Avoid relationships in which your partner, because of smallest argument, is threatening to break up with you. Every relationship has problems, but if your partner is not willing to talk about them, it means that he is not ready to commit himself.

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