Do you always have to go on vacation with your partner or avoid quarrels and disputes at all costs, because they allegedly are harming your relationship? Well, some unwritten rules of marriage are not always the best. Here are those unwritten rules and the other side of them.


Occasional silence is not a sign that your partner is bored with you. On the contrary, predictability and routines are common in everyday life. Many couples enjoy spending some time in silence together, because they feel in those moments that they are truly connected. And to break the daily routine, you can always arrange a trip or a picnic.


The truth not only hurts, sometimes it is, simply, unnecessary. For example, details from your past relationship may be uncomfortable to your partner, because they often lead to comparisons with the current relationship, and comparisons can always lead to unwanted results.


If your partner prefers an active vacation in the mountains, and you adore lying on the beach, who says that you cannot spend a few days separated and enjoy where you want to be? Temporary separation, from time to time, is healthy for a relationship. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should spend every vacation apart, because the impact could be the opposite.


According to one research, couples who never argue divorce more often then those who argue regularly. Therefore, it is better to solve some difficulties with your partner that to keep them to yourself. But try to have a healthy debate without accusations and dirty laundry, because they will bring new problems rather than solve existing ones.


Married couples often neglect their relationship to dedicate themselves to children. With that, they often ruin their relationship, rather than improve their relationship with children. Your children will feel safer with parents who have a strong relationship and show mutual love. That is why you must spare some time for your partner, where you will not think about bills and children's needs, and in this way you will contribute to a happier marriage and family.


If one partner stays awake until late at night, has problems with insomnia or must get up early, sleeping in another room is not something you should avoid at all costs. On the contrary, good sleep is important for your mind and body, and thus your marriage.


If you renounce activities you love just because you cannot enjoy in them together, you are renouncing your freedom and independence, and eventually, you will feel trapped in your marriage. Nevertheless, try to find a common hobby, so that you can enjoy in both, the time spent with your partner and in the activity that you love.


Many think that the end has come when that spark and feeling of butterflies in stomach is gone.  Of course, the initial infatuation will disappear, but that does not mean that you are in relationship with the wrong person. Love is based on trust and commitment, not only on the attraction you feel in the initial stage of any relationship.