Confidence is really a ticket to a better life. Acceptance of your own body is one step toward building a stronger, better self-esteem.

Attraction and attractiveness are potentials hidden in all persons and they have nothing to do with your appearance. It is time to change the way you experience yourself and allow yourself to enjoy your own appearance. Here are some expert advices that can help you change your image of yourself.

Do not compare yourself with others

Do not compare yourself with celebrities, and even with, in your opinion, nicer girlfriends and friends. Every person is different and comparison is meaningless. Every person has its own advantages and disadvantages. The key thing is to accept your good and bad sides. Colleague from work may have longer legs, but you have prettier hair. After all, the attraction itself is a picture that you have of yourself. If you think you are attractive, you will be attractive to others.

Love yourself

Be proud of your body and your uniqueness. Do not let unimportant things like your waist size or body weight to be in the way of your happier life. It is not worth it. No matter how you look, be proud of what you are. What is worth to someone all the beauty of this world if that person does not know to behave politely, and what does a pretty face mean to someone if that person is unable to take care for it self and pay the bills? Love yourself. It is a process that requires time, but it is possible to achieve it. And believe me, it's worth it.

Take notice of your positive characteristics

Most people tend to ignore their successes and positive things about themselves, and that is why they have no problem to focus constantly on negativity. It is time to start noticing and your positive characteristics. Take a look at yourself in the mirror. What do you like? Enjoy the things that you like on yourself. Remember your successes in life and enjoy that feeling. Who says that you have to think constantly about your failures? Such an attitude will not take you far. Every day you think of your strengths and your life will be beautiful.

Ignore the messages of media

The media are full of tips for beauty. In the modern world if a woman is not super-skinny, she is not pretty?! The media have strong influence on people, and many are unconsciously accepting these messages. Stop watching and reading imposed imperatives. You don’t have to be skinny, with narrow hips, large breasts, snub nose and full lips. You don’t have to, because beauty is in fact being different. And you are different from others and enjoy what you are. Confident people know that their secret is actually their desire not to be like others.

Lose weight if you want

If your weight has become a threat to your health, then you should lose weight, because that is also a form of self-love. First, you should accept yourself as you are, and then explain to yourself that it would be good to lose weight, because it will benefit your health. However, remember that you must not do anything that will jeopardize your health. Do not stick with strict diet and do not take dangerous diet pills. Be gentle with yourself and cherish love for yourself, and it will be easier to lose weight.

Fulfill your desires

Beauty is hidden in us, while attraction emanates. However, if you enjoy clothing, shoes and cosmetics, treat yourself. There is nothing wrong if you are cheered up with nail polishing and make-up. Dress those things that make you feel good and do things that make you happy. Life is one - do not deny yourself small indulgences.