Admit it, whenever you hear that some couple is back together, you think - yeah, like that’s going to last. If the relationship ends, then obviously there was some problem, so it is hard to imagine that the next time it will be better and more successful. This is especially true if the end was ugly and difficult. 

Many experts do not agree with that way of thinking. Perhaps there were some problems earlier but time spent apart can eventually bring closer two individuals and make a relationship much more successful – under condition that the main problems are successfully solved. Of course, there are and some "rules of renewed relationship" with which you can increase your chances of success in the second round!


It is difficult to brake and slow down when you are trying very hard to make up the lost time and to enjoy being in that old feeling of love. But whether you admit it or not, both of you have changed and you’ll will need some time until you’re completely familiar with each other. Experts suggest that you should treat this old-new relationship as a completely new one. Even though you’re rushing to enjoy the days spent together once more, it is important to stop and think about why do you want to be with that person. It is the same question like with any other partner, and not something you would ask yourself only because you know that person from before.


Talk about some major things that you want them different this time - but be careful not to sound like you’re threatening or inadvertently posting ultimatum.

It would really make me happy or It would mean a lot to me – is a good way for you to introduce an old topic in the conversation. And this time both of you should seriously work on your bad habits. For example, if it bothered him that you’re always late – start arriving on time. if it bothered you that he stayed often out with his buddies until late at night, or even not calling back - point it out to him, loud and clear.

But watch out. Be very carefully if you want to start a fight because of an old dispute, as you otherwise could find yourself again in the beginning.


The good side of breaking up is that it probably made you a stronger person. Experts say that each time we break up with somebody we are re-learning how to live our lives. So, regardless of whether you have spent your separated time learning a new martial art or with new love, you have made yourself better and stronger.


Regardless of whether you have a new relationship with an old boyfriend or new one, it is worth to know what kind of women men are most afraid of.

The Italian psychologists have made extensive research, which included nearly 3,000 men. The research has shown that two-thirds of men are afraid of women that are obsessed with marriage.

On that list, men placed even single mothers. The reason for this was men’s fear of being responsible for someone else's child.

Men also avoid women who seek perfection and like to have everything under control.

Among other things, the research discovered that men are trying to avoid women who have many friends whose advice they’re listening to. They also don’t like women who care a lot about what their friends think, instead of thinking for themselves.

But the most interesting of all the data is that most men, 98 percent, have the biggest fear of women who are selfish, full of themselves and think they are queens.