Even in school, bad guys always had the hottest girls. Is there some unwritten rule that they follow and that helps them get all good girls? Women say that they want their partners to be gentlemen, to open the door for them, hold their coats and carry bags from the market, but in the end they choose guys who are rude, never call and do not know to compromise with them.

No wonder that the "other" men are lost in this whole story and are never sure what is expected from them. Here are some secrets about the bad guys.






Everything that bad guys are doing is interesting: they chose not to follow a conformist way and they have developed their own individual rules. Simply, they do what they want and still get away with that. Girls forgive them all their mistakes and sins because they are exciting and charming, in a word - fascinating.

Boring guys are following routine and doing the usual stuff, which is not that exciting. On the contrary, with the bad guys you never know what's next. Unpredictability and adventure are part of their charm, and that is what makes women do crazy stuff. 


You'll never catch a bad guy not sure in himself, not knowing an answer to a provocative question or not looking at some pretty girls passing by. They have their own movie in their head and do not allow others to give them orders.


Everyone loves a good challenge, especially women. If something is seemingly impossible to reach, then it is a definitely worth of effort, and girls who are running after the bad guys want to win the jackpot of excitement.

"Other" men could learn something from the bad guys and implement that in their conquest strategy. If you are that “other” man, analyze your confidence and try to see yourself with new eyes.  If you increase your confidence, you will automatically increase your attractiveness – you’ll radiate differently and attract people towards you. You do not have to become rude and arrogant, you can be mysterious and unreachable. This will make you more interesting and thus you will get certain "points". You do not have to completely change your personality in order to fit into desired mold - nobody would want that. Simply introduce some small changes in to your behavior or thinking – that will be enough to become noticed.